Guides & JournalEngagement Ring Finger and How to Choose a Ring
In Pakistan the engagement ring is most commonly worn on the ring finger — the fourth finger — of the left hand, for both women and men, though some families place it on the right hand. Beyond the finger, choosing a ring comes down to size, metal (gold, silver, platinum or other metals), stone, design and budget. Here's the engagement ring finger for male and female, how to get the size right, and how to choose a ring.
Engagement ring finger for female and male
Customs vary between families and regions, so if anyone in the family feels strongly, follow that. At the ceremony, the ring is often put on by the groom's mother or a female relative for the bride, and by the bride's family for the groom.
| Who | Most common | Also seen |
|---|---|---|
| Women | Ring finger (fourth finger) of the left hand | Ring finger of the right hand |
| Men | Ring finger of the left hand | Ring finger of the right hand |
How to find the right ring size
Ring sizes are written differently by different jewellers, so give the measurement in millimetres if you can.
- Borrow a ring that fits the same finger and measure its inside diameter.
- Or wrap a thin strip of paper around the finger, mark it, and measure the length (circumference).
- Measure at the end of the day, when fingers are slightly larger.
- Make sure it slides over the knuckle.
- Ask the jeweller whether the ring can be resized later.
Gold, diamond, silver or something else?
For men, platinum, silver, tungsten and titanium bands are popular choices — plain, brushed, or set with a small diamond.
- Gold — the traditional choice for women's rings; ask about purity (karat) and weight.
- Diamond or solitaire — increasingly popular; ask for a certificate for real diamonds.
- Silver, platinum, tungsten or titanium — common choices for men's rings.
- Artificial or imitation — affordable for the look, or for a ring worn daily while the real one stays safe.
Engagement ring designs
Think about daily wear: a high setting catches on dupattas and hair, while a lower setting is more practical.
- Solitaire — one stone, timeless.
- Halo — a centre stone circled by smaller stones.
- Band — a plain or patterned band, popular for men.
- Floral or vintage — leaf, flower and filigree details.
- Couple rings — matching designs for both.
Engagement ring plate decoration ideas
Keep the plate light enough to carry around the room — it's the centre of the ring ceremony photos.
- A small tray or thaal with rose petals and the two ring boxes.
- A decorated ring box with the couple's names.
- Fresh or artificial flowers around a mirror tray.
- A tiny calligraphy board with the date.
- Candles or diyas around the plate for photos.
Buying a ring safely
For real gold and diamonds, buy from a jeweller you trust, get a receipt that states the purity and weight, and keep any certificate. For everyday or artificial jewellery, small sellers on dapxop list jewellery and custom jewellery; sellers state the condition and material on each listing. For the wedding itself, see Bridal Jewellery Set: Barat, Walima and Mehndi.
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Frequently asked
Which finger is the engagement ring worn on in Pakistan?
Most commonly the ring finger (fourth finger) of the left hand, for both women and men, though some families use the right hand.
Which finger is the engagement ring worn on for a male?
Usually the ring finger of the left hand, but customs vary and some men wear it on the right hand.
How do I find my ring size at home?
Measure the inside of a ring that fits, or wrap a paper strip around the finger, mark it and measure the length. Measure in the evening and make sure it fits over the knuckle.
What metal is best for a men's engagement ring?
Platinum, silver, tungsten and titanium are popular choices for men, either as a plain band or with a small diamond.
What are popular engagement ring designs?
Solitaire, halo, plain or patterned bands, floral or vintage designs, and matching couple rings.
How do you decorate an engagement ring plate?
Use a small tray with rose petals, decorated ring boxes, flowers around a mirror tray, a little calligraphy board with the date, and candles for photos.